chanmyay pain doubt wrong practice keeps circling my sits, like i’m failing something basic again
It is 2:18 a.m., and the right knee is screaming in that dull, needy way that is not quite sharp enough to justify moving but loud enough to dismantle any illusion of serenity. There is a strange hardness to the floor tonight that wasn't there before; it makes no sense, yet it feels like an absolute truth. The room is silent except for the distant sound of a motorbike that lingers on the edge of hearing. A thin layer of perspiration is forming, though the room temperature is quite cool. My consciousness instantly labels these sensations as "incorrect."The Anatomy of Pain-Plus-Meaning
The term "Chanmyay pain" arises as a technical tag for the discomfort. I didn't consciously choose the word; it just manifested. What was once just sensation is now "pain-plus-interpretation."
The doubt begins: is my awareness penetrative enough, or am I just thinking about the pain? Or am I clinging to the sensation by paying it so much attention? The raw pain is nothing compared to the complicated mental drama that has built up around it.
The "Chanmyay Doubt" Loop
I try to focus on the bare data: the warmth, the tightness, the rhythmic pulsing. Suddenly, doubt surfaces, cloaked in the language of a "reality check." Chanmyay doubt. Perhaps I am over-efforting. Perhaps I'm being too passive, or I've missed a fundamental step in the instructions.
Maybe I misunderstood the instructions years ago and everything since then has been built on a slight misalignment that no one warned me about.
That thought hits harder than the physical pain in my knee. I find myself fidgeting with my spine, stopping, and then moving again because I can't find the center. My muscles seize up, reacting to the forced adjustments with a sense of protest. A ball of tension sits behind my ribs, a somatic echo of my mental confusion.
Communal Endurance vs. Private Failure
I remember times on retreat where pain felt manageable because it was communal. Pain felt like a shared experience then. Now it feels personal, isolated. Like a test I am failing in private. “Chanmyay wrong practice” echoes in my head—not as a statement, but as a fear. The idea that I am reinforcing old patterns instead of uprooting them.
The Trap of "Proof" and False Relief
I encountered a teaching on "wrong effort" today, and my ego immediately used it as evidence against me. It felt like a definitive verdict: "You have been practicing incorrectly this whole time." The idea is a toxic blend of comfort and terror. Relief that the problem has a name, but panic because the solution seems impossible. Sitting here now, I feel more info both at once. My jaw is clenched. I consciously soften my face, only for the tension to return almost immediately.
The Shifting Tide of Discomfort
The pain shifts slightly, which is more annoying than if it had stayed constant. I had hoped for a consistent sensation that I could systematically note. Rather, it ebbs and flows, feeling like a dynamic enemy that is playing games with my focus. I strive for a balanced mind, but I am clearly biased against the pain. I note my lack of equanimity, and then I start an intellectual debate about whether that noting was "correct."
The doubt isn't theatrical; it's a subtle background noise that never stops questioning my integrity. I offer no reply, primarily because I am genuinely unsure. My breathing has become thin, yet I refrain from manipulating it. I’ve learned that forcing anything right now just adds another layer of tension to untangle later.
The sound of the clock continues, but I resist the urge to check the time. My limb is losing its feeling, replaced by the familiar static of a leg "falling asleep." I stay. Or I hesitate. Or I stay while planning to move. It’s all blurry. All the categories have collapsed into one big, messy, human experience.
There is no closure this evening. The pain remains a mystery, and the doubt stays firmly in place. I just sit here, aware that this confusion is part of the territory too, even if I don't have a strategy for this mess. Just breathing, just aching, just staying. That, at least, is the truth of the moment.